Recently Jiah Khan committed suicide and her boyfriend Suraj pancholi has been arrested for suicide abbetment. My question is that are all suicides abetted? Sometimes people are unable to cope up with the stresses of life. I have been following the news in print and electronic media.
My views on the subject is as follows. Two grown up individuals get in to a relationship, have concensual sex and live in. They are fully aware of the consequences. Presently the Supreme Court has passed a law that living up couples can file an FIR if a partner is subjected to domestic vilence, can claim maintanece and property.
The concept of living in partenr ship is mutual and it is clear that if the relationship does not work out either of the indivdual can walk out of the relationship. It is not easy to handle such situations because human beings do get attached and when the break up come it sometimes is difficult may be for both or one of the partners.
Being grown up adults one should weigh the proand cons of any action they take. After a living in relationship many accuse the partner of rape is this fair. Rape should be reported immediately and repeatedly if a person has been locked and unable to escape. If person consents then they should accept the consequence. And in any case suicide is not the answer but some people either are weak or extremely stong to take this step.
What follows is that it leaves the nearest and dearest ones hurt and in stress. The need of the hour is good counselling of all indivduals right from the school level and parents, teacher and psychological consellors should be a mandatory requirement at the school level. If a celebrity does this then many a crazy fan can go bezerk and media reporting also has to be discreet and judicious. I hope that this will make sense to some.
Thanx jayashree
My views on the subject is as follows. Two grown up individuals get in to a relationship, have concensual sex and live in. They are fully aware of the consequences. Presently the Supreme Court has passed a law that living up couples can file an FIR if a partner is subjected to domestic vilence, can claim maintanece and property.
The concept of living in partenr ship is mutual and it is clear that if the relationship does not work out either of the indivdual can walk out of the relationship. It is not easy to handle such situations because human beings do get attached and when the break up come it sometimes is difficult may be for both or one of the partners.
Being grown up adults one should weigh the proand cons of any action they take. After a living in relationship many accuse the partner of rape is this fair. Rape should be reported immediately and repeatedly if a person has been locked and unable to escape. If person consents then they should accept the consequence. And in any case suicide is not the answer but some people either are weak or extremely stong to take this step.
What follows is that it leaves the nearest and dearest ones hurt and in stress. The need of the hour is good counselling of all indivduals right from the school level and parents, teacher and psychological consellors should be a mandatory requirement at the school level. If a celebrity does this then many a crazy fan can go bezerk and media reporting also has to be discreet and judicious. I hope that this will make sense to some.
Thanx jayashree
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